Korea is the third country of OECD countries in divorcing rate. Based on data in 2001, Korea divorcing rate is 42.2% It is crazy happening. Why this situation is happend?
Frist, individual happiness is more important than keeping family. So, if a partner become to be frustrated and feel tiredsome in marriage life, the person can say easily "How about we do divorse?" than the past. Although they have children, they decide to divorce and think 'let's divide our children and raise them.'
Second, negative recognization about divorcing is disappeared gradually. We respect individual thinking and opinion. Actually sexual discrimination is. Sometimes divorcee is ignored from company and society because still Korea have the common sence that man is more independant existence than woman. Divorcee, woman have disadvantage when they want to enter a company.
Third, modern woman can also earn money as much as man. They don't need to worry about the life after she get divorced. As a girl, I think that profit of woman is positive thing, but we should consider more seriouly and objectively getting divorced.
The last one is that law for people who want to divorce is clear and simple. If each others agree and set a seal, they can divorce. I saw that a man prepare divorce paper and a woman just set a seal for divorcing in drama. Because I did not divorce, the process might be the same with reality.
Meeting your lover, getting marraige and making an appointment, saying "Please stay with me forever" are not simple things. Save the words and your love. However, after you get marraige, if you find out 'It is wrong!' , there is no solution except for divorcing.
Befor you file divorce, let's think about when you and your partner loved dedicately.
The most interesting is. Remarraige with their past partner rate is high unexpectedly. This investigation result say us 'the first your choice isn't wrong.' Futhermore remarraige with another partner is easiler to fail. In the end, they decide easily to divorce again.
We need more mature cognition about marriage.
I agree, Blair. People now don't take marriage as seriously as in the past. They know there's an out, and too often it's taken very quickly. Couples should try everything they can with divorce being the absolute last option.
답글삭제I can see your effort from your essay.
답글삭제It's awesome serious problem that people only think their own happiness!
I find it interesting that remarrige rate is high~ maybe people can be people when being around with loved one eventually.
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